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A well-drafted cohabitation agreement does more than simply put a couple’s intentions in writing.
It provides clear, practical guidance on how financial and personal matters will be handled.
So, how can you structure your agreement to ensure it works for you?
One of the most common sources of conflict between cohabiting couples is money. A cohabitation agreement should set out:
Example – Sarah moves into Tom’s house but agrees to contribute to the mortgage and renovations. Their agreement specifies that if they separate, she will be reimbursed for her contributions.
Property disputes can be costly and stressful. The agreement should clarify:
Example – David and Emily purchase a house together, but Emily contributes more to the deposit. Their agreement states that in the event of a sale, Emily will receive a larger share of the proceeds.
Financial strain can put pressure on relationships, so it is best to agree upfront:
Example – Alex and Jamie agree that Alex will pay more towards rent, while Jamie takes on utility bills. Their agreement ensures both partners are clear on their commitments.
No one wants to think about a breakup, but planning ahead can save a lot of stress later. Your agreement can include:
Example – Mark and Rachel agree that if they split, they will sell their shared property and divide the proceeds proportionally to their contributions.
While most people think of cohabitation agreements as dealing solely with property and money, they can also cover personal possessions.
A recent survey found that 44 per cent of cohabiting couples with pets would consider including them in their agreement, while one in six would want to protect valuable items like jewellery and watches.
Many couples forget to include pets in their agreement, but as recent surveys have shown, pet custody is a growing concern. You can specify:
Example – Mia and Ben adopt a dog together. Their agreement states that if they separate, Ben will keep the dog but continue to split vet bills.
Cohabiting partners do not automatically inherit each other’s assets without a Will.
While a cohabitation agreement is useful, it should be complemented by:
Example – Adam and Chloe include a clause stating that Chloe will inherit Adam’s share of their jointly owned house, and Adam updates his Will to reflect this.
Life circumstances change, and your agreement should too. Consider adding a clause that:
Example – Kim and Martin agree to review their agreement after five years or if they buy a home together.
If you are considering a cohabitation agreement, our family law solicitors can help tailor one to your unique circumstances. Contact us today to get started.

Director – Head of Family Department
I qualified as a Solicitor in 2006 and now specialise in divorce, financial settlements, childcare arrangements and Pre Nuptial Agreements. I have many years’ experience as a private family lawyer having worked with two other local firms before returning to Mander Hadley, where I first undertook work experience during my university studies.
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